There were many times this spring when we wondered if we'd have our 26th annual sister weekend this fall with all 7 of us sisters. By the grace of God, we could.
Since we had to wait some time to know if our sister Rachel was OK first, then OK to walk in some fashion second, we waited to find a place for a getaway. What ended up working was a few days in the middle of the week rather than a weekend.
In November.
So I found (via VRBO) a huge house in the Twin Cities area that had a first-floor bedroom for Rachel, plus plenty of dining and relaxing space also on the first floor. As a bonus, we all got our own bedrooms and queen beds – except my twin and I sharing the master suite.
And here's one view of that master suite. A king-size bed plus a couch and two chairs for relaxing or visiting, then a huge bathroom with a jacuzzi tub and shower and walk-in closet as big as my home office. Wow. We were willing to share.
This was one of the nice living room/gathering spaces.
It was very nice and perfect since we didn't need to go anywhere and sight-seeing. We've all been to the Cities a bajillion times! The sad part was that this was our first down-time where we could talk through Rachel's tragic accident and miraculous recovery – and grieve Mom. What a year!
Somehow a bunch of childhood pictures came out of the woodwork...
Yes, me being a clown. Not far from my personality 50 years later!
Me around kindergarten age loving on one of our barn cat kitties that we never seemed to keep.
My sister Rachel helping me walk. And then decades later me having to help her walk after her accident. A sad but victorious twist!
Just hamming it up before there were selfies.
I had never seen this picture of my twin Lene and I riding tricycles.
And this one with us (I'm on the left) and Dad. Never saw that. We both cried over that one!!
Current day at Sister Weekend (aka Sister mid-week getaway)!
This year, since we were in the Twin Cities and our brother Ron lives there, we met up for dinner at a place called Junction 70 – literally 5 minutes from our VRBO rental.
Took pictures around the table... Ron and Rayna...
Then our cooperative R-sister waitress Rowan took a picture of all 8 R's. We just can't take that for granted! The sad part is that we can't show this picture to Mom.
And yes, I'm crying as I type this because dang, that really, really sucks.
We did, however, manage to have plenty of fun catching up, playing games (me losing at cards but winning $$$ off my sisters at dice). Everything will just sit a bit different now going forward.
I'm sure I've said it a hundred times, but hug your parents, your siblings, your kids, and any loved ones! You just don't know!
P.S. Love ya, R sisters!